One of the most common questions couples have revolve around wedding stationery. Couples find themselves at a loss when it comes to selecting, addressing, and mailing their invitations. The process does not have to be a difficult one if you have the right guidance. Here are a few important things to remember:
First Impressions are Everything
- When addressing to a married couple, it could be written to Mr. and Mrs. Johnson or Mr. and Mrs. Richard Johnson. The inner envelope, if one, could read Richard and Joan Johnson, or simply, Richard and Joan.
- For a couple living together, but not married, you will want to address each of their names on a separate line alphabetically by last name.
- For a couple in which one is a doctor and the other is not, the doctor should be listed first, followed by their spouse’s name, for example: Doctor Maria Vazquez and Mr. Juan Vazquez.
Invitations should always be hand-addressed, either by the couple, a friend or family member with nice handwriting, or by a calligrapher. Following this rule of thumb demonstrates to your guests that great care has been taken to personally invite them to your wedding. You should never use printed labels.
Spell it Out
When addressing invitations, spell out all of the words in an address. “St.” should be spelled out to “Street” or P.O. Box should appear as Post Office Box. This also applies to the state name. House or apartment numbers smaller than 20 should be spelled out as well. On the Return
Your return address should also be completely spelled out. However, you could have a stamp made, or have the return address printed directly on the outer envelope. The same applies to the RSVP envelope. You should never use labels.
You’ve Got Mail
Before you physically adhere stamps to your invitations, bring one complete set to the post office and have it measured and weighed. This will ensure you put adequate postage on your invitations, and that they will make it to their destination and not be returned. You should also include postage for the RSVP card.
There are many resources available offering advice and etiquette guidance online, or ask your invitation designer, calligrapher, or wedding planner for assistance. Learning these details prior to sending your invitations will help with a smoother and less daunting of an experience.
If you are planning, or would like to plan a gorgeous Vermont Wedding, contact Liz Cotter at 802.282.9880 or email us at firstname.lastname@example.org. We have multiple ceremony and reception sites available for 2013.